Live And Let Live

Human beings (especially males) are hypocrites.

Definition of a hypocrite: a person who professes beliefs and opinions that he or she does not hold in order to conceal his or her real feelings or motives.

Upon seeing a gay, homosexual couple across the street or on the TV they will express their utter disgust of those “faggots” and spit on the floor and utter profanities. However later on tonight those same individuals will log onto their computers, bring up a porn site, type in “Lesbians” and watch two or more females going at it for hours on end (or until they receive their own pleasure).


One rule for them, another for everyone else. They don’t mind gay and homosexual relations when it suits them (watching lesbian porn), but hate when they actually see a gay male couple in the street who probably are actually in love.

Unlike the large percentage of the world population, I do NOT hate gays and I am NOT a homophobe. I actually quite like gay people, I find them to be more cheerful, nicer and kinder than the majority of heterosexual people. Might be due to the fact that they have to work harder at being accepted by society, and therefore are humbler than others?

I have two friends who are homophobic and openly express their disgust towards gays. When this conversation came up I actually surprised myself when I felt my blood boiling. Both friends (male and female) expressed how they thought it was disgusting and wrong and completely against their religion (they are Muslim).

I however seem to have a completely different view and one that MANY people will not agree with, but this is honestly how I see it:

Heterosexuals are NATURALLY attracted to the opposite sex. When I came into my own and started noticing boys, that was a natural reaction that I could not control. I believe that God gives, makes and controls everything and what He wants, is the way and is destined to happen. Therefore God made me and billions of other heterosexuals attracted to the opposite sex.

So the same occurs to homosexuals, they have NO control over their attractions. They are designed to be attracted to people of the same sex. It is their NATURAL instinct. So in that same way, is God not in control of that? I believe he is.

So I do not believe that homosexuals are committing sin and that they are “condemned to hell”. I believe that God made them that way.

In Sikhism we believe that God is without hatred and animosity. We are all children of God. God loves everyone regardless of one’s thoughts or actions.

Also here’s a thought of the day, do you really think that homosexuals want to be that way? With the backlash, bullshit, crap, aggro, and negativity they get from people, society and the world, don’t you think that if they could, if they had a choice, they would rather be heterosexual. But they can’t! They don’t have a choice. The same way guys catch my attention and women catch men’s attention, men catch these men’s attention as well.

Don’t you think that from all the bullshit they have to endure from the moment they realise they are attracted to the opposite sex, homosexuals would rather be straight! But they can’t be, because they would be denying their real self their whole lives. Getting rejected from their parents in some cases and various family members and friends. You think they want that? They are HUMANS at the end of the day. They have feelings people, FEELINGS!

Are they committing murder, lying through their teeth, hurting people through greed and various addictions? No? Then they are already better than a large percentage of the world’s heterosexual population.

The only thing that I do not like about gays is that they are SO hot, sexy and gorgeous and so NOT available. Sigh.

“So I say, “Live and let live”. That’s my motto. “Live and let live.” And anyone who can’t go along with that, take him outside and shoot the motherfucker. It’s a simple philosophy, but it’s always worked in our family.” George Carlin


7 thoughts on “Live And Let Live

  1. Socialkenny says:

    Well glad that I don’t like Lesbianism nor watching girl on girl porn.I’m probably the only guy in that category.

    • I find that hard to believe. Doesn’t EVERY guy love lesbians or something?

      • DeCode says:

        no we don’t. infact even guys who do like watching lesbians don’t really care for the gay aspect (as you misrepresented in your argument earlier). men like women period. and most men are disgusted by the sight of another naked male in a aroused state. therefore, a good portion of men prefer girl on girl porn. the lesbian act between the girls IS NOT the turn on per say. it’s the promise and fantasy of the guy having the two women to hmself thats the turn on.

        then there’s the fact that we are aroused buy the sight of women acting and diplaying themselves in a sexual manner…if one is good, two is better!

        now what i find interesting is how most women are just as disgusted by male on male porn or even the thought of male on male sex as men are…hmmmm explain that one?

        • Fair point. I haven’t really seen male porn so I can’t comment on that one.

          • DeCode says:

            you know, from your rants and statements within your blog post; i figured you for a fussy, self absorbed, little girl. but i must confess, i misread you.

            you seem genuinely open to real discussion on the subjects you write about in your blog. keep it up. i hope you get a better understanding on the things that inspire you to write here.

            i’m now a follower…

          • Hahaha. Why thank you!

            You knocked the nail on the head. I wrote this blog to rant and rave and share my biased self absorbed views, because that’s exactly what they are.

            But that is the reason for this blog. I realised that there are always two sides to a story and my ‘way’ is not always the right way. So this blog is basically a way for me to write my thoughts on topics and then get people like you to offer your opinions and get me to see the REAL world. Not just what I like to pretend the world is like.

            Wow thanks for being a follower! 🙂

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